Oh, if I had a nickel every time someone asked me that question, I'd have a lot of nickels! So, it goes like this...
My boyfriend and I have been together since 2009. I know the image that comes to mind when you think about an escort's boyfriend, but forget the stereotypes. He is an executive for a management consulting firm and I am a nurse. Aside from being professionals who liked nice cars and nicer restaurants, we were both kind of perverted, too. :)
Almost a couple years in, we started speaking very frankly about fantasies and he said he often envisions me with other men. I owned up that I desired sex with more than one guy. This talk continued as we explored ourselves on a forum where this topic was common. Before too long we were having our first MFM encounter and I have never looked back! We became swingers and I really liked 3 ways and 4 ways and More Ways. I even let him have an FMF once!
As with everything sexual between us, we pushed the envelope. He encouraged me to "play alone" as a Hotwife then we'd discuss it later. He would screen guys from reputable swinger sites, then pass them on. I'd make arrangements, go be bad, then tell him about it as we fucked. It was hot!
One time, I role-played as a prostitute. I went to a hotel to meet my date and it got me off. A light went off and we started discussing it, so I did it again. This excited me and it excited him. We then went there and had the conversation and we agreed to investigate it.
After a long period of research I decided to test the waters with an agency and Abbey was born. Needless to say, it didn't last long, as we quickly realized that was not the life for me. Being on call, no schedule certainty, low pay, lies about my age and height, fake pictures... they were terrible. I needed to control my own time and be independent. I separated from them and launched phillyabbey.com with the sole mission of trying to make every encounter as perfect as could be. I cut back my nursing shifts because I fell in love with this life and I plan to stay here as long as you will all have me.
So, the path was:
Boyfriend > Perverted Talk > Forum Chatter > Swinging as a Couple > Playing Alone (Hotwife) > Prostitute Roleplay > Serious Perverted Talk > Agency Experience > Independent Abbey
Thank you all for being with me for the journey! I hope have made you smile, or maybe will someday soon!